Cost of living crisis is trapping unhappy couples in failed marriages, divorce lawyers warn
From the Newshound archive · first published 23 September 2026 · last updated 24 September 2026.


Unhappy couples are being forced to stay in failing marriages because they cannot afford to divorce, lawyers have warned after new ONS figures showed the average marriage ending in divorce now lasts a record 13 years. Rebecca Aston-Jones, a senior associate at Clarke Willmott, said rising rent, mortgages and childcare costs make separation "financially daunting" for many couples. The 13-year average is the longest since records began in 1963, up from a record low of 8.9 years in 1985. There were 105,002 divorces in England and Wales in 2025, well below the 150,000-a-year peak of the 1980s and 1990s.
Divorce lawyers say couples 'can't afford to get divorced and face the financial hand grenade that it results in.'
The Marriage Foundation think tank has urged Labour to drop new wedding bureaucracy and adopt French-style rules to cut ceremony costs.
Same-sex couple divorces hit their highest level since same-sex marriage was legalised in 2014, with 2,123 recorded in 2025.
